THE METAPHYSICS OF RELATIONSHIPS WITH A INDIAN MUSLIM WOMAN

Who am I? The obvious answer is, ‘a human being.’ More specifically, ‘a woman.’ That’s easy. But going beyond that, what defines or describes me? Daughter, wife, mother, editor, journalist, writer, friend, sister or colleague? What’s the order of priority? When I introduce myself to another, what is the description I use? This invariably changes in the context of whom I meet. As a colleague puts it, “When I meet my husband’s friends, I am his wife; when I go to my children’s PTA meet, I go as a mother, and when I meet people officially and even socially, my official profile takes over. And if there are so many shifting descriptions of me, who is the real me?”

The point is who do you feel like most of the time? Who are you really when you are alone with yourself? Alone with your thoughts, at the mercy of your sense of morality and ethics, your innate judgement of your own self? Naked with your own self, so to speak!In that state, can you meet your own eyes and proudly declare the truth of whom or what you really are? Can you face that definition of your real self? That’s the true test, and that’s the true description of you.

Do you wait eagerly for the next meeting of minds with someone? How often does someone excite the mind rather than just the body or emotions?We are always interested in the working of an unusual mind. Those who are predictable get boring after a while. It’s the minds that are able to think differently, think out of the box, come up with new, creative ideas and keep destroying to rebuild again, that are really worth interacting with.

Whenever a problem is brought up, almost everybody tries to offer quick, easy and commonplace solutions. And then there may be that one person who will think different. And come up with a solution that’s unusual and pathbreaking. That’s the mind that operates a notch or two deeper than others.even get used to their kindness, warmth or niceties and start taking these for granted. But there is one thing that can neither be taken for granted, nor is a trait you couunt  You may talk to many during the course of a day. And yet there may be the one whose conversation had the ability to make you sit up and take notice; the one whose thinking process and mind not just interested, but challenged you. That is the mind and the conversation that stays with you, the one that you will seek out again and again. The one you will have a mind affair with.

A mind affair that is quite different from a physical affair. Or even love or romance. Delving into the depths of another mind can be more interesting and adventurous than anything else in the world. While a similar thinking process and similar thoughts can be attractive and reassuring, what can be mesmerising is a different mind that challenges your understanding and the working of your own mind. It is not necessary that the mind you relate to would be attractive to another as well.

Criminal minds all share a common mind-set that is disturbingly different from the average mind-set. Such proclivity towards a criminal mind is evident from childhood. The very strangeness and dangerous quality of this mind holds a different type of fascination for us and we find studies, books and movies made around the study of such a mind extremely engaging.

And then there is the realm of mind games, games that highly intelligent minds play to control the minds of those lesser than themselves or those emotionally dependent on them. Such intelligent, but complicated minds can be highly dangerous and are usually associated with people who have a high IQ level. You wouldn’t even realise and somebody close to you could be controlling your every thought, every action and emotion. And deriving a great satisfaction from it!ld get used to or grow out of. This is the stimulating power of another mind, the uncanny intricacies of the mind that attract and enrapture you.

This is the one quality that doesn’t come with an expiry date.

You and I are nothing more,

than pieces on a chessboard;

Parts of a puzzle design,

made by the same Divine.

On the road but you have no destination.

No words said but you can feel the sensation.

This world seems unreal so you hide in your imagination,

We are only characters playing a role as God’s creation.

Every downfall is only a path to spiritual elevation,

Get up brilliant noble people of Malaysia

Forget everything and enter the world beyond sound or hue.

Feel the heart’s rhythm that God will take care of you.

You don’t know it but it is a Divine Miracle.

Only if you breathe it in can you reach your pinnacle.

Embrace it slowly and do not listen to the cynical.

We are so determined to make ourselves the obstacle,

There is someone watching us outside of our minds’ cubicle.

Say it loud and clear and break the chains from the physical.

Use not your eyes but your heart to look past the view.

Fall into the fact that God will take care of you.

the Karma in this life spend as long as they live wise, noble, harmless and do not commit violence, cheating others, be evil or cruel to others, rape or rob others, seduce others, giving false hope and empty promises etc.

Ever had a mind affair?Delving into the depths of another mind can be both interesting and adventurous.

Similar minds attract while different ones mesmerise

Nothing could be farther from the truth!
Unless you are able to see yourself in the objective and in a positive light, no diet, no work out and no amount of reassurance will make you believe something you haven’t truly grasped. In order to change the subjective core beliefs that limit you, you have to transform the reflection that you have inside of you. The good news is that this self image is entirely impersonal. If you don’t like the physical or what you see in the mirror every morning, try to view your opinions and reflection in a new light.When you uncover the positive and objective view of yourself, your true spark may only burn minutely at first. But the opportunity for that spark to grow into a raging fire is ever-present. The seed of your life — who you really are, who you’re about to grow into and who you have always been — is now brave enough to break through the surface for the first time.
It takes courage, time and commitment. You’ll continuously face society’s standards, critical opinions and your old subjective views. For us to be ourselves, we don’t need anything. We just need to be alive and breathing. We need absolutely nothing for us to be ourselves.
I hope you can stop and evaluate your thought process and develop an understanding of why you might be at the point of questioning your true reflection. Determine what is really important in your life right now.Our perceptions are tinted by our life experiences. For example, if your family is “picture perfect,” you may be viewing your surroundings through “picture perfect glasses.” We’re all different, based on how our experiences have formed us and how our intelligence makes meaning out of all we experience. When your self-image is whole, you feel good and are safe in your thoughts. When something takes place in your life that emotionally leaves a mark, you can become self-doubting. If you’ve been abused, condemned or teased, you may suffer the impact of that emotional pain and feel shame, ultimately masking your true reflection. If you’re trapped in a subjective reflection, hating some part of you, it’s because you think that you are that disgusting, unworthy, fat, ugly, stupid or incapable reflection.

Around 80% of world population have entities and foreign energies trapped within them, as per a spiritual website’s report. As strange and bizarre and surreal as this may sound, and probably for many of my readers, this might be something they cannot comprehend or relate to, this article stems from my personal experience and learning that other dimensions do exist around us and within us too. And they play a huge role in our relationships! A chunk of the hypnotherapy degree course I did, dealt with the role of energies, entities and personalities within us and their effect on our thoughts, energy levels and behaviour patterns. A lot of destructive behaviour, suicidal thoughts, unexplained fatigue and I’m now going to irk the medical community by bringing bipolarity and schizophrenia into the arena as most likely caused by entity possession too. What medical science understands and validates is termed ‘science’ and ‘physics’, what is not understood as yet is termed metaphysics. Every time science has a ‘breakthrough’, it has only discovered what always existed. Gravity existed, but it took a Newton to ‘prove’ it and that too with an apple. Man, in his limited thought, believed that the sun revolved around the earth, and it was anti-religious to believe otherwise, till science ‘validated’ what was always a reality, we move around the sun. Entities exist. They can be lost, scared, unaware of their death, or just trapped and creating chaos begging for release. My relationship advice for the week: Go to a good western clinical hypnotherapist, get them to assess what lies within, and free yourself from your inner ‘demons’. It changes your relationships, it changes your life.

One day

the sun admitted,
I am just a shadow.
I wish I could show you
The infinite Incandescence
That had cast my brilliant image!
I wish I could show you,READMOREThe metaphysics of relationships with